FAQ

1. What time should I arrive?

The ceremony will start at 4:00 PM. We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes before. Los Angeles is a big city, so we suggest planning for unforeseen traffic delays.

There will be a cocktail hour before the ceremony, starting at 3 PM.

2. What is the dress code?

Dressing up is optional, but we hope you'll join us in being fabulous and theatrical.

Think Old Hollywood glam—sparkles, capes, or even an extra-long cigarette holder!

"Best Dressed" prizes will be awarded by the Bride and Groom.

3. Is there parking available at the venue?

Unfortunately, The Paramour Estate is not able to accommodate on-site parking. We will be providing a complimentary shuttle to and from a nearby parking lot. For more information, please see our Wedding Details page!

4. Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

The Paramour Estate is an indoor/outdoor venue. The ceremony will be held outdoors. We recommend bringing a light jacket or wrap for the evening.

5. Can I smoke?

Yes, there are designated smoking areas at the venue. You are welcome to enjoy a cigarette, cigar, or weed in these areas.

6. Are children allowed?

While we love your kids, we kindly ask that you leave them at home to enjoy a night out with us.

7. What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?

Our caterer is prepared to accommodate various dietary needs. The wedding dinner will be nontraditional, with food stations for guests to pick and choose from.

8. Is there a hotel block for guests?

No, but you can check out the "Accommodations" page for lodging suggestions and LA travel tips.

9. Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We ask that you please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. Our photographer will capture everything, and we’ll be happy to enjoy the moment with you.

10. What should I do if I can’t attend?

If you can’t make it, please RSVP as soon as possible by sending your RSVP card by mail or by using our online RSVP form on this website.

11. Is there a gift registry?

We honestly have everything we need and are just happy to have our loved ones be part of this special day. Gifts are not expected at all.

If you still wish to give us a wedding gift, we are grateful for any small contribution towards our honeymoon & future fund.

12. What time will the wedding end?

The venue is ours until midnight for those who want to keep the celebration going until we all turn into pumpkins.

13. Can I bring a plus-one?

Please refer to your invitation. If it was addressed to you "and Guest," then you're welcome to bring a plus-one.

14. Is my attire “Too Much?”

NEVER! You should feel encouraged to go over-the-top!

15. My question is not answered here.

Send Adi an email at adianaselenavega@gmail.com with any questions!